Understanding folks like Joe

 

 
 
 

Editor, the Times:

My reason for writing this letter is to explain one example of a homeless gentleman living in our midst.

Many people who have lived in Abbotsford for any length of time will know Joe Smith. Joe's story is unique. Joe is a middle-aged man who chooses to live outdoors. Regardless of how cold or hot, wet or dry, he refuses to take shelter.

After a little research I have discovered there is a reason for his refusal. Crazy as it may seem, Joe's situation leads me to believe that his body has acclimatized to living outdoors in extreme weather conditions. To take shelter for even an overnight stay would throw his body out of sync. Looking at this situation from a different perspective, Joe has also acquired a taste for alcohol and being in a shelter, he would lose the comfort alcohol gives him.

Whether we agree with his choices or not, they are his choices and he is entitled to them. Personally, I feel Joe has the right to stay outside.

Unfortunately some of his choices as to where he stays gets him into trouble with some of the downtown merchants. The police are called and they move him on.

One of the practical problems of Joe, as well as others who chose to live outdoors, is where are the facilities for them to relieve themselves? Is it possible to have a porta-potty somewhere for them?

Joe's appearance leave much to the imagination and can be intimidating to people walking by. There are no easy solutions to help Joe unless Joe wants the help offered.

I have never felt threatened or intimidated by Joe. I encourage people to stop, say hello and just get to know Joe for the human being that he is.

Perhaps someday he will accept the offers of help from his fellow human beings. Most importantly, Joe needs friends just like you and me.

Phyllis Harms

Abbotsford

 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 

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